On 3 Mar 2009 at 10:01pm fred wrote:
My wifes mate is having an affair and getting my wife to look after her kids and cover for her all the time the thing is this is putting a great strain on our marriage what should i do ?
On 3 Mar 2009 at 11:27pm Talker wrote:
Talk to her??
On 4 Mar 2009 at 7:52am Dan wrote:
My ex-wife did that. Then she started having an affair. I suppose it had given her ideas. Be careful.
On 4 Mar 2009 at 10:22am dog with two tails wrote:
Bang her and your wife
On 4 Mar 2009 at 12:05pm Dr Dolittle wrote:
Women are always on the lookout for a better catch, if he's is skint and idle then he better start thinking of something else. Why not have a chat to the woman and see what your chances are, you never know your luck.
On 4 Mar 2009 at 2:59pm Black Eyes wrote:
When the husband eventually finds out, and you can bet he will. It will probably be you that gets a punch up the throat !! He will find out your wife has been covering for her and as he can't get physical with your wife, he will muller you....probably? Tell your wife to pack it in, best friend or not. Good luck Fred, your going to need it !!!
On 4 Mar 2009 at 5:12pm Agony Uncle wrote:
How well do you know the mate's husband? - tell your wife that you are going to Tell her mate to fess up to her husband - OR you will tell him - give wife a deadline to tell her mate to do this else you tell the mate - say 5 day - so if wife doesn't tell mate to fess up - YOU tell her mate to fess up or you'll her husband - 10 days at most and it resolved (well at least as far as you and your wife are concerned AND you are in the clear with wife, and wife's mate's husband)
On 4 Mar 2009 at 6:25pm rene wrote:
If i were you i would keep your wife and yourself well out of peoples marriages.
On 4 Mar 2009 at 6:57pm expat wrote:
Couldn't agree more Rene. You'll both end up losing these people as friends and there will always be bad feeling between you. I think you should keep your opinions quiet and accept that the problem is your wifes mates and not hassle your wife about it. It can't go on forever, and if it does hopefully your wife will learn to say no.
On 4 Mar 2009 at 10:21pm Agony Aunt wrote:
Good advice so far BUT what about the children?
You may wish to remind this stupid woman that she has responsibilities above and beyond those of a quickie with someone else's husband.
The tell her to go swimming with dolphins (or other aquatic wildlife - NOT semen)!!!
On 4 Mar 2009 at 10:41pm Anon wrote:
Expat is right.Keep quiet.I was on the receiving end of an affair in the late 70s,when my long term boyfriend moved in with another woman..He asked me to wait while he sorted it,and because I loved him dearly,I did,and he came back eventually....But he did it again.And once again I had no idea.
I felt totally shafted and it will never leave me...
Stay out of it,both of you if you can,and talk about it,and hopefully it will not effect your relationship.
On 4 Mar 2009 at 11:47pm expat wrote:
I grew up with a best friend, went through school together (Priory)and were inseperable. In the early 80's she lived overseas and I holidayed with her and her husband regularly. She was having marital difficulties and asked me to take some money back to the Uk for her as a safety blanket, which I did. Her and her husband mended their relationship, arrived on my doorstep in the UK and asked for the bank account details which I gave them and she never spoke to me again. To this day I regret having got involved as I lost my best friend through getting involved in her marriage even though I thought it the right thing to do for our friendship. Stay out of it!!
On 5 Mar 2009 at 6:46pm Chav wrote:
Just leave your noses out. me and her are just having fun thanks. No strings
On 5 Mar 2009 at 6:49pm Chav wrote:
Well only one but thats how I like the chicks.