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I feel so alone and unloved

On 6 May 2009 at 5:00pm really down in the dumps wrote:
I need cheering up as I have had a row with my boyfriend and he wont txt me, even tough I have said sorry. We are in love but he gets into such a sulk when we have a tiff . He's not the talking kind, likes to sweep things under the carpet but when he gets into one of his dismissive moods, it hurts like mad as he knows it does.
Any advice?
We live in Lewes, by the way, but not together.
On 6 May 2009 at 5:12pm Marvin the Paranoid Android wrote:
It could be worse, you could be me !!!!
On 6 May 2009 at 5:33pm HardMan wrote:
Just ignore him. Let him have to make the running. After a few days she might suddenly realise you can do without him completely.
On 6 May 2009 at 5:51pm Gloria mundi wrote:
Stop saying sorry. Take yourself in hand and go out with another man. Then you won't feel quite so unloved and he may take you a little less for granted. If he doesn't respond, it's time to move on anyway. Make sure you dump him before he dumps you.
On 6 May 2009 at 5:57pm Sam Spam wrote:
Alternatively, you could sit down and discuss how you both communicate with one another and the patterns of behaviour that you both exhibit that wind each other up (maybe a top 5 list of good things and bad).....best to choose neutral territory for this (pub/simple restaurant) somewhere you both feel comfortable and able to talk candidly.....usually best to agree terms first, not talking over each other or raising voice...
hope this helps
On 6 May 2009 at 6:22pm Dresdan China wrote:
if you love him, really love him, like he loves you then thats answer to every thing
send one more text then go to your newsagent and buy a liitle love card you know what someone wrote for a living, just sign it and a few kisses on the bottom send it and that might do the trick in the meantime go out with your friends dont dwell on it, as it will make things worse good luck
On 6 May 2009 at 7:16pm Not quite so down in the dumps now wrote:
Thankyou to you all! I didnt realise there were so many nice folk on here. I wont dump him as we really do love eachother and he is as inseccure as I am . Its amazing what difference it makes knowing that so many of you responded. I will keep you posted. xxx
Hardman, why you so down?
On 6 May 2009 at 8:12pm HardMan wrote:
Just playing the hard man. Hope everything works out.
On 6 May 2009 at 8:49pm Spongebob wrote:
What an absolute crock of s**t this is !!!!!!!
On 6 May 2009 at 9:10pm Marriage Counsellor wrote:
Spongebob you deserve the best in life, you are such a charmer - I bet you have a huge circle of friends all willing to do anything to help you, you are one of the most beautiful people I have ever come across - my only fear for you is that you do not understand satire - why bother posting A-hole
On 6 May 2009 at 11:36pm Spinster Of This Parish wrote:
Hate to be a party-pooper BUT, forget him and move on.
Dismissive, sulking, refusing to communicate?
Sounds as if he has problems which will only become worse in time.
On 7 May 2009 at 2:59am FIVE_A_DAY wrote:
Rumour has it that ALDI is running a special buy on Quick Set Concrete, Heavy Duty Refuse Bags and Ropes this Thursday.
On 7 May 2009 at 8:13am Annette Curtin-Twitcher wrote:
I'm with Spinster on this. Sulking is pathetic, childish, passive-aggressive behaviour. He needs to grow up, and the more you pander to him, the less he is likely to do that, because you are reinforcing his behaviour and making him feel valued by trying to get him to talk. You're settiing a dangerous precedent too, by dancing to his tune.
Go and do your own thing, until he can act his age.
On 7 May 2009 at 9:06am Gloria mundi wrote:
There you are, down in the dumps, if ACT and the Spinster advise it, it's time for action: don't be a doormat, find yourself a real man who doesn't sulk.
On 7 May 2009 at 9:55am Rookie wrote:
Dump him. By the way, what are you doing next Saturday?
On 7 May 2009 at 10:26am not from around here wrote:
She loves him! So advising her to dump him is not too helpful. You've got to talk to him though - that's the only solution to these little 'difficulties'.
Good luck.
On 7 May 2009 at 12:28pm Chav wrote:
Tell you what chick. Pop round my pad. We can finish this pizza, I'll have the green bits, no prob, I'm a gent. Then we can crack open the stripy. Once at ease babe, we can give you some propa lovin. Next time sulky pants sees you, you'll be walking like John Wayne on prozac. lets get it on.
On 7 May 2009 at 6:54pm Dumped!!!! wrote:
He just dumped me!!!!
On 7 May 2009 at 10:37pm Annette Curtin-Twitcher wrote:
You're better off without him. Now get your hair done, your lucky pants on and get out there and find someone who'll treat you right!
On 7 May 2009 at 10:38pm drone wrote:
Real Mills & Boon stuff. But like a lot of the M&B authors, I rather doubt that you are a lady at all. I think you are bloke on a wind up. Something about your post just doesn't ring feminine.
On 8 May 2009 at 9:35am Gloria mundi wrote:
ACT's quite right, new hair style and bounce back as fast as you can. Plenty of better fish in the sea. He'll be really miffed if you aren't moping around for the next few months.
On 8 May 2009 at 11:39am BAY CITY ROLLERS wrote:
On 10 May 2009 at 10:10pm Dumpee wrote:
Drone, Im not a bloke. But I have bought myself a whole load of new clothes and had my hair done, funnily enough. Thinking of having a boob job as well. Anyone know anyone who has had one and are they happy with the results?
On 11 May 2009 at 10:29pm Long Distance Whelk Fisherman wrote:
Boob job? Don't be so foolish (unless you are grotesque in that department)

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